Resources
Death, Grief and Hope for Young People
FACTUAL: Downloadable Christian resource which looks to tell the truth about what happens when someone dies and how to understand our feelings.
Death, Grief and Hope for Adults
FACTUAL: Downloadable Christian resource which looks to tell the truth about what happens when someone dies and how to understand our feelings.
The Royal College of Psychiatrists Suicide Support Advice
WEBSITE: The Royal College of Psychiatrists has produced a bereavement information pack for those bereaved by suicide or sudden death.
The Long Way Down - Poems of Grief and Hope by Averil Stedeford
POETRY: This is a collection of poems written by Averil, a psychiatrist who worked in a hospice. Soon after she left the hospice, her husband was found to have inoperable cancer. The poems in the book represent a moving account of her experience with him and her journey through bereavement. It has helped many people as they go through the grieving process.
Physical Manifestation of Grief - Understanding How Grief Affects the Brain
This article explores the physical manifestation of grief. Grief not only impacts our emotions but also brings significant changes to the brain, affecting memory, stress levels, and overall well-being.
Dying for Beginners - The Dying Process
This video explains the dying process very gently so that we understand it better and can have conversations with friends and family about it.
Love Your Pet - Grief Support
In this article we acknowledge the value of pets in supporting grief and the pain we can also experience when they die.
Looking After Yourself - When You’re Mourning
After the funeral, everyone else's lives seem to go back to normal, and you may be left wondering how you're going to cope. Read on for advice on taking care of yourself, crucial for your future wellbeing and that of others, when you’re still mourning.
Bereavement Support - in Older Age
Although losing a loved one is perhaps more common in later life, this doesn’t make it any easier to deal with. If someone you know has been bereaved, there are some simple things you can do to provide bereavement support.
How to Cope with Grief - The Benefits of Grief Gardening
When you lose someone, the grief will never go away completely — so you may want to know how to cope with grief. Some people find that gardening as they grieve, known as grief gardening, can gently relieve some of the emotional and physical symptoms after the loss of a loved one.
Losing a Loved One - Coping When Bereaved
AtaLoss Subject Matter Expert, Sabine Horner is a nutritionist. Here she writes about how deep breathing can help us deal with the storms of emotion when we're bereaved.
Top Tips to Keep Well Hydrated - The Physical Effects of Grief
One of the most common physical effects of grief is reduced appetite and a lack of interest in drinking enough fluids. Meanwhile we can often cry a lot which depletes our hydration levels further. Sabine explains why keeping hydrated in grief is important and how that can be achieved.
Bereavement Support - Young People Training
Listening People bereavement support training and resources provide tools for teachers, youth workers, counsellors and anyone who works with young people to safely and confidently enable them to engage around the difficult topic of loss.
Symptoms - The Physical Effects of Grief
Are you puzzled by the physical effects of grief? Sabine explains the hidden causes of common grief symptoms.
Funerals: Find an Independent - Funeral Director near You
Understand how The National Society of Allied and Independent Funeral Directors (known as SAIF) can help.
Funerals: Everything a - Young Person Needs to Know
A useful film and book to help any young person understand funerals (burial and cremation) and decide whether to attend and what role they can play in saying goodbye to a loved one.
Surviving Christmas - When You Are Bereaved
The video from Sabine Horner offers tips for surviving Christmas when you are bereaved.
Bereavement Counselling - What You Need to Know
We provide some information here about what bereavement counselling is, what to expect and how to find a good counsellor that suits your needs. The information is helpfully provided by the Association of Christian Counsellors.
Anticipatory Grief & the Final Farewell - The Power of Discussing Death
Anticipatory loss is the grief that is felt in anticipation of someone's death and we can better prepare for loss, change the negative narrative, and remove the taboo by talking about death.
Christmas… a Difficult Time for - Those Who Are Grieving
Christmas is a difficult time for those grieving. This is the season of traditions and family gatherings and a by-product is that it highlights the ‘missing-person-shaped’ hole in our lives.
Annually Remembering - In Memoriam
Remember loved ones In Memoriam. We encourage people who have been bereaved to consider activities on offer at this time of remembering. We also offer some advice to help bereaved people with their grief.
Offering Bereavement Support - to Grieving University Students
Supporting young adults as they navigate being away from home at University and providing them with bereavement support can be challenging. Here our Founder, Yvonne Tulloch provides quick tips on how to do so.
Bereavement Support - Befriending
Loneliness is often something we experience following the death of someone important to us and can happen at any age. This article provides links to services that can help by offering bereavement support.
Preventing Drastic - Weight Loss in Grief
Sabine Horner explains why eating can become a major issue after losing a loved one and experiencing grief. In the early days, for biological reasons most people who are grieving simply do not feel hungry.
Losing a Child - and Grieving
Grieving the death of a child, of any age, brings heartbreak and devastation. This article was written by Jane Harris and Jimmy Edmonds who set up the Good Grief Project following the death of their son, Josh.
Feeling the Physical Effects of Grief? - Nourish Your Body
Nutritionist Sabine Horner recommends ways to nourish your body when you are grieving.
Rosemary for Remembrance - Mourning Cake
A recipe for how to bake a Rosemary for Remembrance Cake from Nigella Lawson’s book Feast. It’s perfect to bake for yourself or someone else who is in mourning.
Bereaved? Why We Can’t Stomach Food - Physical Signs of Grief
Lost your appetite? Of the many physical signs of grief, a decreased appetite and other food related issues are perhaps the most common. Learn what you can do about it.
When Something Terrible Happens by Marge Heegaard
FACTUAL: The 'Drawing Out Feelings' series of books has been designed to provide parents, educators and counsellors with an organised approach to helping children cope with grief, family loss and change.
When Someone Very Special Dies by Marge Heegaard
REFLECTION: A practical format for allowing children to understand the concept of death and develop coping skills for life, this book is designed for young readers to illustrate.
The Goodbye Boat by Mary Joslin
NOVEL/STORY: A very simple illustrative story of the sorrow of seeing the goodbye boat take a friend away.
Someone Has Died Suddenly by Mary Williams
FACTUAL: Written by Mary Williams the CEO of BRAKE, the road safety charity. This is a book about the sudden loss of a loved one through a traffic accident.
When Someone Dies by Tracey Cusick & Simon Hepworth
REFLECTION: This book asks the questions that children ask, and answers them in a succinct format. Simple illustrations and straightforward text are designed to help children through difficult times.
What on Earth Do You Do When Someone Dies? by Trevor Romain
REFLECTION: This book is a simple, insightful, and straight from the heart book for any child who has lost a loved one or other special person.
Muddles, Puddles and Sunshine by Diana Crossley
REFLECTION: A book offering practical and sensitive support for bereaved children.
Michael Rosen's Sad Book by Michael Rosen
BOOK: A beautifully illustrated read for adults and children about love and loss which explains why it's ok to be sad sometimes.
Remembering Mum by Ginny Perkins & Leon Morris
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: The book Remembering Mum reminds the reader of the need to express grief in a society which all too often sees death as a taboo subject.
Waterbugs and Dragonflies by Doris Stickney
FACTUAL: This little book will help you find the right words...a caring thought...a comforting reflection to communicate compassion in extraordinary ways for bereaved children.
The Memory Tree by Britta Teckentrupp
NOVEL/STORY: A beautiful and heartfelt picture book to help children celebrate the memories left behind when a loved one dies.
Granpa by John Burningham
NOVEL/STORY: An illustrated book to help and support children with grief.
Badger’s Parting Gifts by Susan Varley
NOVEL/STORY: A helpful reading guide from Child Bereavement UK that provides tips for reading Badger’s Parting Gifts with children and helping them better understand grief.
In the Springtime of the Year by Susan Hill
REFLECTION: Susan Hill's book is a true account of a lyrical exploration of love and loss and grief and mourning.
The Cremation Society of Great Britain
WEBSITE: Organisation committed to best practice and promotion of cremation.
A Death in the Lives Of
ARTS/THEATRE (FACTUAL FILM): 20 minute film shows a group of young people aged 13-16, from a range of backgrounds talking about the kind of support they needed to help them cope with bereavement.
The Boys Are Back in Town by Simon Carr
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: A father bringing up boys after the death of his wife.
Every Time We Say Goodbye by Anna Blundy
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: Anna Blundy's book is an honest account of her personal experience of losing her father.
And When Did You Last See Your Father? by Blake Morrison
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: Blake Morrison's book is a portrait of family life, father-son relationships and bereavement.
Living on the Seabed by Lindsay Nicholson
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: Lindsay Nicholson looks at the grieving process and offers a roadmap to help all of us navigate a path none of us chooses but all of us must walk.
Leaving a Legacy and - Reducing Your Tax Liability
Leaving a legacy including a part or your entire estate to a charity can reduce, and in some situations, eliminate your Inheritance Tax liability.
How to - Hold Your Own Memorial
If you have been bereaved and you can’t attend a funeral or have chosen not to do so you may want to hold your own memorial service for the person you have lost.
Learning Disabilities - and Bereavement Support
This briefing is produced by Brake, the road safety charity. It aims to raise awareness of how people with learning disabilities experience grief, and provides advice on how to offer them bereavement support.
Young People and - Traumatic Grief and Bereavement
In traumatic grief and bereavement, children and young people experience very strong emotions because of the meaning they make of the death.
The Grief Goes On - A Gift for a Bereaved Friend
Dr Marianne Trent, a Clinical Psychologist and Author of 'The Grief Collective', talks about mourning and letting other people know you are bereaved. She also explains the AtaLoss Remembering Someone badge which we think makes a good gift for a bereaved friend.
How to Cope with a - Tragedy & Complicated Grief
Every death brings its own trauma to survivors. However, when someone is suddenly killed in an accident or murdered, the stress levels rise considerably for those left behind and this can cause what is known as complicated grief.
Traumatic Grief & - Bereavement Support
Trauma refers to the way that some distressing events are so extreme or shocking that they overwhelm a person’s ability to cope, resulting in lasting negative impact. This article contains information to help you understand and respond to people with traumatic grief.
What Is Effective - Bereavement Support?
This article explores effective bereavement support, how we can learn to offer it, and what it looks like.
Magnesium: Managing Symptoms - When Struggling with Grief
When we are struggling with grief one often-overlooked factor in managing the symptoms we experience, is ensuring we are getting enough magnesium. Magnesium is an essential mineral that plays a pivotal role in over 300 biological processes within the human body.
Autistic People and - Bereavement
There is not a great deal of research on how autistic people deal with bereavement. However there is useful advice available that can help us support anyone with autism, whatever their age.
Writing a Will or Handling One When Bereaved
You might have to deal with the Will, money and property of the person who's died if you're a close friend or relative, or the executor of the Will. If you are anticipating your death you may be considering writing a will. We’ll talk about both aspects of Wills.
Funerals - How to Plan One
Our guide on how to plan a funeral. A funeral is an opportunity to create a special tribute to your loved one and whilst painful, can also be memorable and a positive experience.
Protecting Against Identity Fraud - What to do When Someone Dies
Wondering what to do when someone dies and has their identity stolen? This advice might help you to prevent it.
Dealing with Belongings - What to do When Someone Dies
This article outlines what to do when someone dies and you need to deal with their belongings, it also covers what the legal rules may be.
Government Advice - What to do When Someone Dies
Do you need to know what to do when someone dies? There’s a lot of Government advice to help and support you during this difficult time. This article explains more.
Funeral Etiquette - in Different Faiths
If you are attending the funeral of someone of a different faith you can get advice here on, for example, what to expect, how to pay your respects, how to send condolences and what to wear to the funeral.
Five Tips for Supporting - a Grieving Young Person
Here are five tips for supporting young people who are bereaved.
Cancelling Mail
This is our guide to cancelling mail. Receiving post for the person who has died can be very difficult. Depending on the type of mail, there are a variety of practical measures you can take to deal with the problem.
How to Easily Cancel Official Documents - What to do When Someone Dies
Do you need to cancel official documents? We’ll tell you what to do when someone dies. Using the Government's ‘Tell Us Once’ service will ensure all government departments are informed. This includes passports, driving licenses, pensions, benefits, national insurance, tax and blue badges.
Benefits - and Bereavement
If you have been affected by bereavement there may be Government benefits you are now eligible for, especially if you are a partner or child of the deceased. Depending on which of your loved ones has died your tax allowances, National Insurance and benefits may change.
Tough Stuff Journal: Someone Has Died
REFLECTION: A resource to help young people express and share their grief and feelings of loss when someone has died - endorsed by professionals in the field.
Training by Listening People
TRAINING COURSES: Training for youth leaders, teachers and professionals supporting young people.
Your Last Gift: Getting Your Affairs in Order Before You Die, by Matthew Hutton
FACTUAL: 'Your Last Gift' is a practical step-by-step guide to getting your paperwork together, to help your loved ones deal easily with the 'sadmin' after your death. It has received excellent reviews.
Change, Loss and Bereavement in Highland
Striving for better outcomes for children and young people who have experienced change, loss and bereavement
My Dad and Me by Daxa Manhar Patel
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: A journey of love... loss...and life. Daxa bravely shares the story of her love and grief for her inspirational father.
Loss and Hope
WEBSITE: Resources to equip churches of all denominations across the UK to help those grieving.
What to Do When Someone Dies: National Bereavement Service
FACTUAL: A very helpful little guide to everything you need to do following a bereavement and a handy checklist on the back.
Fevered Sleep
ARTS/THEATRE: Fevered Sleep are an arts project on a mission to make the world a more caring, curious, compassionate place - one unlikely art project at a time…
Life. Death. Whatever.
WEBSITE: Life. Death. Whatever. is an initiative to redesign the dialogue around death and dying, to open it up and find new approaches to this important subject. This project ran from 2016 and has now closed. The website remains online as an archive, preserving all the wonderful submissions and contributions received over the years.
Open to Hope
WEBSITE: An online website where people can share inspirational stories of loss and love. We encourage our visitors to read, listen and share their stories of hope and compassion.
Languages of Loss by Sasha Bates
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: Languages of Loss: A psychotherapist's journey through grief.
See You Soon by Philippa Skinner
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: An honest and reflective account of a mother's story as she faces up to and lives through her son's death from a heroin overdose in 2007. Skinner is writing for those who are bereaved, those seeking to support people who are, and also, more specifically, for people affected by addiction.
Funerals: Organisations That Can Help
WEBSITE: Organisations, both faith-based and secular, that can help and advise about loved ones' funerals and help you find a celebrant.
A Birthday Present for Daniel by Juliet Rothman
NOVEL/STORY: Ellen has lost her brother, and she shares with readers just how his death has changed the way her family interacts and the way she thinks about herself and others.
I Miss You: A First Look at Death By Pat Thomas
FACTUAL: This reassuring picture book explores the difficult issue of death for young children.
Goodbye Mousie by Robie H. Harris
NOVEL/STORY: This beautifully illustrated picture book tells the story of a little boy who’s told that his pet mouse has died.
A Gift for the Bereaved Parent by Zamir Hussain
REFLECTION: This book has been written to address this need from the Islamic perspective using quotes from the Quran and Ahadith. The loss of a child is probably the most painful experience a parent can go through. It is at such times of deep sorrow and grief that people often turn to their faith.
Government Departments You Need to Notify About a Death
WEBSITE: Useful links to Government departments to notify them about a death.
What Does Dead Mean? by Caroline Jay and Jenni Thomas
REFLECTION: A book for very young children to help explain death and dying.
Saying Goodbye: Malin Andersson Podcast
WEBSITE: Listen to former Love Island star Malin Andersson talking about the loss of her mother and her baby daughter and why it is so hard to talk about death.
The Empty Room by Elizabeth DeVita-Raeburn
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: A memoir about sibling loss.
The Web Of Grief by Rhiannon Jones
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: After the loss of her brother the writer reflects on life and how to recover.
I’ll Write Your Name on Every Beach by Susan Auerbach
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: A Mother’s quest for comfort, clarity and courage after suicide loss.
The Grief Garden Path by Julie New
REFLECTION: The Grief Garden Path is easy to read, with plenty of practical advice, which you can dip into whenever you have time.
When Dinosaurs Die by Laurie Krasny Brown and Marc Brown
NOVEL/STORY: by Laurene Krasny Brown – A guide to understanding death (Dino Life Guides for Families).
Goodness Gracious Grief Podcast by Kady Braine
WEBSITE: Looking at how we can help each other grieve.
Where are you Lydie? by Emma Poore
NOVEL/STORY: A true and uplifting story for young children about love, loss and hope.
Rosedale Bereavement Training
TRAINING COURSES: Professional bereavement training courses provided by the training arm of Rosedale Funeral Directors.
The Invisible String by Patricia Karst
NOVEL/STORY: A wonderful storybook for children experiencing any kind of separation for any reason (including bereavement) anxiety.
If There’s Anything I Can Do: How to Help Someone Who Has Been Bereaved by Caroline Voaden
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: Caroline Voaden was widowed in 2003 with two very young children. She explains how it feels to try and cope after the death of a partner, and she also passes on the advice of many other people who have lost their partners, some with young families, many in later life.
How It Feels When a Parent Dies by Jill Krementz
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: The short writings hold a range of reactions to the death of a parent. The authors come from different backgrounds, situations and circumstances, yet they hold one thing in common: losing a parent.
Losing Someone you Love: When a Brother or Sister Dies by Elizabeth Richter
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: For young and older teenagers about losing siblings.
..Tough Stuff Journal: Someone has died
A resource to help young people express and share their grief and feelings of loss when someone has died - endorsed by professionals in the field.
Tough Stuff Journal: Parents Splitting Up
REFLECTION: A resource to help young people express and share their emotions and feelings of loss when parents separate.
Funerals: A Guide by James Bentley, Andrew Best & Jackie Hunt
FACTUAL: An anthology of prayers, readings, hymns and music, drawn from a wide range of faiths and traditions.
Love, Interrupted by Simon Thomas
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: Love, Interrupted is a moving story of love, loss, faith, and family.: Love, Interrupted is a moving story of love, loss, faith, and family.
On Grief and Grieving by David Kessler and Elisabeth Kubler Ross
FACTUAL: A well respected book that outlines some experiences that some bereaved people may experience.
Children and Grief by William Worden
FACTUAL: Drawing upon extensive interviews and assessments of school-age children who have lost a parent to death, this book offers a richly textured portrait of the mourning process in children.
Beyond Grief by Carol Staudacher
REFLECTION: A guide for recovering from the death of a loved one.
Option B: Facing Adversity, Building Resilience and Finding Joy by Sandberg & Grant
REFLECTION: After the sudden death of her husband, Sheryl Sandberg felt certain that she and her children would never feel pure joy again.
Love and Loss: The Roots of Grief and It’s Complication by C Parkes Murray
FACTUAL: By understanding the nature and pattern of loving can we begin to understand the problems of grieving.
Young People Bereavement Training by Listening People
TRAINING COURSES: Listening People training and resources provide tools for teachers, youth workers, counsellors and anyone who works with young people to safely and confidently enable them to engage around the difficult topic of loss.
Continuing Bonds by Klass, Silverman & Nickman
FACTUAL: Many modern theories hold that the function of grief and mourning is to cut bonds with the deceased, freeing the survivor to develop new relationships.
Swift to Hear by Michael Jacobs
FACTUAL: Michael Jacobs addresses these listening and responding skills, describing the process of communication.
Childhood Bereavement Network
WEBSITE: A hub for those working with bereaved children and young people across the UK
Listening to Others by Joyce Huggett
REFLECTION: Essential reading for anyone who wants to help other people by being available to listen carefully.
Understanding Grief- An Introduction by Richard Gross
FACTUAL: A comprehensive and accessible 'one stop' introduction to all the major models of grief.
When God Weeps byJoni Eareckson Tada & Steven Estes
REFLECTION: Joni Eareckson Tada, a woman who has lived in a wheelchair for more than thirty years, and Steve Estes, a Christian pastor and one of Joni’s closest friends, explore God, death and trust.
Simran Jeet Singh, Sikh Ways of Grieving
ARTICLE: A useful website and article that explains how Sikhs comfort the dying, mark death, comfort the bereaved and celebrate life.
Somerset County Council, Advice on Attitudes to Death and Grieving in Different Faith and Belief Communities
FACTUAL: A guide with general advice about how to respect different community approaches to death and bereavement.
Understanding Faith Considerations When Caring for Bereaved Muslims by Maria Kristiansen & Aziz Sheikh
FACTUAL: Bereavement represents a significant life event, often resulting in major social, psychological and spiritual transitions. In this paper, core Muslim beliefs in relation to death and bereavement are considered.
Saying Kiddish: How to Comfort the Dying, Bury the Dead and Mourn as a Jew by Anita Diamant
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: A book that helps move one through grief according to Judaism’s beliefs and customs in layman’s terms.
A Sky of Diamonds by Camille Gibbs
NOVEL/STORY: An illustrated storybook about a girl named Mia who has experienced the death of her mother. Covering all stages of grief, it is perfect for reading with bereaved children aged 5-9 as a way to help them overcome their difficult feelings. It includes in-built strategies for coping with grief and answers many questions that children have about death.
Great Answers to Difficult Questions About Death: What Children Need to Know by Linda Goldman
FACTUAL: This book explores children's thoughts and feelings on the subject of death and provides parents and other caring adults with guidance on how to respond to difficult questions.
Helping Children and Adolescents Think About Death, Dying and Bereavement by Marian Carter
FACTUAL: A comprehensive guide that looks at how children comprehend the death of a pet or someone close to them, their own dying, bereavement and grieving.
It’s Not Raining, Daddy. It’s Happy. by Benjamin Brooks Dutton
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: A book about surviving grief. A father and son start again after the tragic loss of a wife and mother.
Writing and Researching Wills
WEBSITE: Websites giving advice about writing a will, finding someone's will and finding a will writer.
Organ Donation
WEBSITE: Useful website and contact information about organ donation in all regions of the UK.
Digital Legacy Association
WEBSITE: Helps people make arrangements for their digital legacy.
Natural Death Centre
WEBSITE: Informative website about planning a woodland or green burial.
Humanist Funerals
WEBSITE: Website contact details for arranging a humanist funeral in the UK.
Arranging a Funeral in Church
WEBSITE: Church of England advice and resources for a church funeral.
British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy
WEBSITE: Counselling and bereavement advocacy organisation.
Books on Death for Young Children (Various Titles) by Elke Thompson
FACTUAL: Books (various titles) explaining death in words young children can understand by Elke Thompson.
AtaLoss.org: Preventing Posthumous Identity Fraud
ARTICLE: Information from the AtaLoss.org website about protecting yourself and your family from fraud in the event of your own death or after the death of a loved one.
Ataloss.org: Being a Bereaved Parent Supporting a Bereaved Child
ARTICLE: Information on the AtaLoss.org website about being a bereaved parent
Funny People Talking about Death - Griefcast, a Podcast by Cariad Lloyd
WEBSITE: An award winning series of podcasts by Cariad Lloyd, exploring death and grief with comedians who discuss their own losses.
26 Years to Eternity by Lizzie White
NOVEL/STORY: This read, illustrates the personal journey of a grieving mother over the loss of her deeply loved son, Robbie, who was tragically and suddenly killed in an accident.
Mum's Jumper by Jayde Parkin
NOVEL/STORY: A simple, heartfelt and ultimately uplifting book for anyone coping with loss told from the perspective of a child.
A Valley Journal Resources through blogs, articles and books on grief and how to handle it.
WEBSITE: A Valley Journal is a website which encompasses bereavement advice, dates to book bereavement “Living with Loss” retreats, poetry, blogs and more. It is curated by Abi May.
BBC News Article, If You Die Early, How Will Your Children Remember You?
ARTICLE: A useful article about how bereavement affected Gaby Eirew and how she used 'legacy' to look forward.
With the End in Mind: Dying, Death and Wisdom in an Age of Denial by Kathryn Mannix
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: A book of stories from the bedsides of patients facing death, Kathryn shares the experiences that have enabled her to see dying as something we can plan for.
By a Departing Light by Ian Jennings
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: In Rev Ian Jennings' book, he identifies life lessons through his own experience and how he drew upon the grace of God.
You'll Get Over It: The Rage of Bereavement by Virginia Ironside
REFLECTION: A book drawing on the author and other experiences tackling the death of a loved one.
Love Will Never Die by Clare Shaw
NOVEL/STORY: This book addresses the mixed emotions felt by a child during the grieving process.
Dealing with a Traumatic Bereavement
WEBSITE: This is a useful website offering help for those dealing with a traumatic event including bereavement where it has happened in traumatic circumstances.
Grave Talk by Church of England
WEBSITE: Church of England Funerals Department website that provides information and discussion about death, funerals and more.
Hope Again
WEBSITE: A fantastic support website from Cruse Bereavement Care by young people for young people.
Various Free E-Books from The Grief Recovery Method
WEBSITE: Grief Recovery website has useful articles and videos to help people move beyond death and loss.
The Grief Survival Guide by Jeff Brazier
FACTUAL: The Grief Survival Guide is a book that offers practical advice on everything from preparing for the eventuality of death, managing grief, how best to support family and friends, and moving forward.
Grief Works: Stories of Life, Death and Surviving by Julia Samuel
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: In Julia Samuel's book we hear stories from those who have experienced great love and great loss - and survived.
The Path Not Chosen (CWR) by Wendy Bray
REFLECTION: A beautifully illustrated full-colour booklet for the bereaved.
Philip Yancey When Life Hurts
BOOK: Book designed to help those for whom life hurts as they struggle to understand God's place in their pain.
Losing a Child by Elaine Storkey
FACTUAL: A series of pocketbooks designed for those involved in pastoral care and counselling.
Living through Grief by Harold Bauman
FACTUAL: A carefully crafted book gently explains the experience of grief and suggests practical steps for learning to live again.
What a Wonderful World, An Anthology of Joy by Fiona Castle
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: Book writing about the depths of grief and the hope that emerges.
Rainbows Through the Rain: An Anthology of Hope by Fiona Castle
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: A book about the depths of grief and the possibility of hope.
Beauty from Ashes by Jennifer Rees Larcombe
REFLECTION: A book of Christian religious readings for times of loss.
Acquainted with Grief, Encouraging Meditations for Times of Loss by Faye Landrum
FACTUAL: This is a great gift book for anyone who is hurting from a death, divorce, or separation.
Inside Grief: A Personal Journey: Hope for the Grieving and Those Who Care for Them by Katy Laity O'Brien
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: Inside Grief is book and a personal account of coping with grief through which the author reaches out to others in a similar position.
Surprised by Grief (on being widowed young) by Janine Fair
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY In her book, Janine places her grief in the context of a transition in order to understand her 'voyage of hope', ending with gratitude to God for all she has received from his hands.
Children & Grief by Joey O’Connor
REFLECTION: Children and Grief is a book that offers parents a way to approach these tough questions with honesty, tenderness, and hope.
Children and Bereavement by Wendy Duffy
FACTUAL: Children and Bereavement is essential reading for parents, teachers, clergy and others who may be involved in helping a child or teenager come to terms with a death.
First Steps Through Bereavement by Sue Mayfield
REFLECTION: First Steps through Bereavement is an indispensable guide through the process of mourning a loved one.
Living With Bereavement by Sue Mayfield
REFLECTION: A helpful guide about living with bereavement.
Grieving God’s Way by Margaret Brownley
REFLECTION: Grieving God's Way is a 90-day Christian reader designed to bring hope and healing to those who have experienced loss.
Insight into Bereavement by Wendy Bray & Diana Priest
REFLECTION: An insight into bereavement gives practical advice for these times in our lives and points to the eternal hope we have in God.
God on Mute by Pete Greig
REFLECTION: A book about Pete's own experience of the miraculous power of Christian prayer alongside the pain of unanswered prayer and the common human struggle.
Joy Comes in the Morning by Bob Gass
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: Beautiful book to refer to when coping with grief from Christian minister Bob Gass.
Where is God When it Hurts? by Philip Yancey
REFLECTION: Using examples from the Bible as well as the author's personal experiences, this expanded edition speaks to everyone for whom life sometimes doesn't make sense.
Our Greatest Gift: A Meditation on Dying and Caring by Henri Nouwen
REFLECTION: In this book of personal reflections, the author hopes to encourage those who are dying to die well and those who care for the dying to care well.
Lament for a Son by Nicholas Wolterstorff
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: The author of this book, lost his 25-year-old son Eric in a mountain climbing accident, has started the long, unwanted journey to come to terms with his grief.
A Grief Observed by CS Lewis
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: Grief Observed comprises the reflections of the great scholar and Christian on the death of his wife after only a few short years of marriage.
A Grace Revealed by Jerry Sittser
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: A biography that has become a classic on the topic of grief and loss.
A Grace Disguised by Jerry Sittser
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: An expanded edition of this classic book on grief and loss-with a new preface and epilogue.
Straight Talk About Death for Teenagers by Earl A Grollman
FACTUAL: A book written for teenagers to help explain what to expect when you lose someone you love.
Facing Grief: Bereavement and the Young Adult by Susan Wallbank
FACTUAL: A compassionate book that examines in detail the particular needs and experiences of bereaved young adults.
Alan D. Wolfelt, Healing your Grieving Heart – For Teens
FACTUAL: A book of simple tips for understanding and expressing your grief for teens.
After You by Natascha McElhone
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: After You is a triumphant testament to the resilience of the human spirit after Natascha's loss of her beloved husband.
The Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: A portrait of a marriage and a life – in good times and bad – that will speak to anyone who has ever loved a husband or wife or child. A stunning book of electric honesty and passion.
A Parent’s Guide to Raising Grieving Children: Rebuilding Your Family after the Death of a Loved One Phyllis R. Silverman & Madelyn Kelly
FACTUAL: A guidebook for parents about raising grieving children.
I’m Grieving as Fast as I Can (On Being Widowed) by Linda Feinberg
REFLECTION: A book about how Young Widows and Widowers Can cope and heal following bereavement.
Vigor Mortis – the End of the Death Taboo by Kate Berridge
FACTUAL: This book is a provocative account of how and why we have tamed the thing we most fear - death.
Death and How to Survive it by Kate Boydell
REFLECTION: This book is a unique and practical guide to coming to terms with the loss of your partner.
Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl
NOVEL/STORY: A book to help us understand the meaning of the holocaust. A young adult's version also available.
The Empty Bed: Bereavement and the Loss of Love by Susan Wallbank
REFLECTION: A sensitive book about facing the loss of a sexual partner.
Midlife Orphan by Jane Brooks
FACTUAL: Jane Brooks shows us in her book how to find new sources of strength, in both ourselves and others, after our parents are gone.
Death and the Family: The Importance of Mourning by Lily Pincus
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: This book deals in detail with what happens when death interrupts close relationships.
Motherless Daughters: The Legacy of Loss by Hope Edelman
BIOGRAPHY/AUTOBIOGRAPHY: Motherless Daughters explores the impact on women of losing their mother.
101 Ways to Cope with Grief and Loss by Bill Merrington
FACTUAL: This book provides guidance and aid to the bereaved on their journey through grief and loss.
The Courage to Grieve by Judith Tatelbaum
REFLECTION: Self help book when coping with grief.
Studies in Grief in Adult Life by Colin Murray Parkes, Bereavement
FACTUAL: Colin Murray Parkes draws on his own research to develop some new theories around bereavement and its effects.
Grief Counselling and Grief Therapy by William Worden
FACTUAL: New counselling techniques, incorporating a refined basic model of mourning, and added information on special types of mourning.
Loss Through the Looking Glass
BLOG: A shared blog written about grief and the experiences of losing loved ones written by three bereaved mothers.

